Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Bad News



Yesterday we got Adam's test results back. He has a low sperm count with more than 2/3rds of them being low in quality (meaning they are abnormally shaped making egg penetration next to impossible). We are pretty devastated. I never saw this one coming because we've gotten pregnant twice. Adam has an appointment with a specialist in June. That appointment will give us our super expensive options. In a strange way it's nice to know that something is wrong because at least we trying each month without getting a better result. On the down side, it still feels like my heart's being ripped out. This trial just upped its game.

3 comments:

M3MU said...

First, I love the cartoon. Only because my husbands must be so gay they're hiding! Haha.
Second, I'm sooooooo sorry. It's never easy news to get and I wish I knew what to say to help but there really isn't much except I'm sorry and if you need to chat I'm always available.

Zombetty said...

I'm so sorry for your bad news. There is just nothing more devestating than learning that there is a problem. The only advice I can give you is to try FertilAid. It worked wonders for my hubby and he went from having a very low sperm count that died after 3 hours to being normal.
If you ever need to vent I'm always ears.

kathy said...

Ouch. Here's hoping the wonderful world of medical technology has a wonder drug up it's sleeve for you. It ain't over 'til the fat lady sings. All I hear is silence at this point.